Hi,
I have a question that I don't know where else to ask.
I am 30 and have been very happily married for 5 years. We have a good sex life and are open about our fantasies with each other. My husband's fantasy is having a threesome with another woman (as most men I guess). I am not bothered with that. The thought does excite me but we never pursued the fantasy, not in the least because we wouldn't have an idea who to do it with.
I am very close to my sister who is 32. She recently divorced and she told me that it was because the sex with her ex husband was always bad and not satisfying. She had been complaining about this for a long time, about 2 years, before they divorced.
So my husband and me have developed the fantasy of asking her for a threesome. The thought of this turns me on, because it is so kinky and wrong.
I suggested this to her, and she has let me know that she is up for it. To be clear, we wouldn't make love to each other, it would be him taking care of us, one at a time. We would give him oral together, but wouldn't go any further than that. My sister and me talked about this, and we are both excited about it.
So we are going to go ahead with this.
My question is: has anybody been in a situation that is even remotely similar to this? Could this end very badly, and can we avoit it? I am close to my sister and love my husband, so I don't want to ruin these relationships.
I would really appreciate any advice!
Thanks!
I have a question that I don't know where else to ask.
I am 30 and have been very happily married for 5 years. We have a good sex life and are open about our fantasies with each other. My husband's fantasy is having a threesome with another woman (as most men I guess). I am not bothered with that. The thought does excite me but we never pursued the fantasy, not in the least because we wouldn't have an idea who to do it with.
I am very close to my sister who is 32. She recently divorced and she told me that it was because the sex with her ex husband was always bad and not satisfying. She had been complaining about this for a long time, about 2 years, before they divorced.
So my husband and me have developed the fantasy of asking her for a threesome. The thought of this turns me on, because it is so kinky and wrong.
I suggested this to her, and she has let me know that she is up for it. To be clear, we wouldn't make love to each other, it would be him taking care of us, one at a time. We would give him oral together, but wouldn't go any further than that. My sister and me talked about this, and we are both excited about it.
So we are going to go ahead with this.
My question is: has anybody been in a situation that is even remotely similar to this? Could this end very badly, and can we avoit it? I am close to my sister and love my husband, so I don't want to ruin these relationships.
I would really appreciate any advice!
Thanks!