Sex essentially is the penetration act. Its been acceted without boundary that a foreplay is necessary, and oral sex is the best form of foreplay.
You like to have blowjob, have you given her head? If haven't start working on that. If you watch porno, they will always show a blowjob followed by a sexual act. Some shows the guy giving head, a lot doesnot show, because porno is for people who love to see how a thick dick being used on a woman, on her hand, her tits, her mouth, her vagina and her butt. If you are giving a head and can make her cum, congrats, you really do deserve a blow job. Else you dont.
Now the question is if you should go to a prostitute or forget blowjob, it depends upon what is level of your urge for blowjob is. She is your wife, she had a difffernt upbringing with different values. If she is taught that taking a penis in mouth is a dirty act, do not force. Let her go ahead in her way, she shouldnot do anything she ddoesnot want to. Marriage has some issues which are always unwritten, like having sex, but there are issues which are optional, like oral sex or anal sex. Let option be a case of when agreed by both the partners.
Think about this, you have a craving for getting blowjob, and you are forcing her, May be she will accept. What about her? If she has a fantasy too, wold you do that? Like, if she has a fantasy to see you get fucked by her ex boyfriends, would you comply against your will just to make her happy? If not, then you got the answer, sex is between two consenting adults on safe sex. If she is not consenting on some act, dont force or request. If she feels its a good thing, she will.
If the urge is too much and your wife is not willing, then why not? Go to a prostitute, pay her, get your dick wrapped and get a blow job. Does it sound worthy? I dont think so, stil, your urge your money, take your decision.
Your friends say they get blowjob and the wife take cum on mouth, that is partially very true, but sometime a bit exxaggeration. As I was going throough some report on Indian woman's sexual behaviour, more than 75% said they have given a blowjob, more than 62% said they love to give a blowjob. About 20% said they have taken cum in their mouth, and 4% said they like that. This means your wife is one of those 25% who doesnot think its a good thing, one out of four woman think that way. And again your friends wife are those of 4% who love to give a blow job and drink the cum. Do you think demographically among friends the thought process will be so different? Dont take your friend's words, they must be saying to show off, watching porno and think the same, who wants to show he is lacking something?
Again, leaving on your judgment on what you should do, I will tell you real life situation. A friend of mine came with the same issue and asked if watching porno will help getting a blowjob from his wife. I said the same thing as above, told him give her head, go for cunnilingus without expecting anything, dont ask or request for a blowjob even. He kept doing for a few days and in the week after that he came back saying after four freat head with orgasm to his wife, she asked him that she wants to try to give him the same oral favour. There started his blowjob life. If you have learnt anything from this, dont expect anything, give what you can give the best, you will get the return. But never force, not for little centimeter or just for 2 seconds.
