Let me tell you that your discussion would covered all query regarding women sex especially when they initiate it. It would help all the readers to understand men psyche as well as women when matter comes to sex.
No women would like to initiative sex despite how much they wants to have sex. Woman thinks that it would affect her reputation as our social rules prevent them to imitative as we are living man made society and all the rights of sex in men hands so women usually plays the role of supportive or follow and always cooperate when man starts having sex. Woman hesitates to initiative thinking that what her partner thinks about her. No matter how much she is educated. I am telling this through experience as in college time I had a girlfriend who is highly broad minded and used to live in metro city but still when matter comes to sex or intimate relationship she always hesitated to start. Once I asked, her reason why she did not ask me to sex as she was liked the sex and oral sex the most and she simply replied she was not comfortable to ask it. Once she was comfortable in relation, she Okays and asks for the sex. You are right that man are worried about her orgasm as we are always consider sex means orgasm as we are concentrate on it because we think to achieve orgasm is the end of sex session but same is not for women.
There are many factors which keep women conceal like our reaction to her move, insecurities, wrong myths, conservative thinking, less education, womanhood, orthodox ideas, feeling inferiority, wrong belief that sex means pain, aggressive partner, arrange marriage, our society and their ideal like her mom or elder sister or friends discussion.
Yes I am sure women are less vocal because of men make fun of them if they takes lead in sex department, it is men ego that sex department purely belongs to men property so some women also think the same hence women do not lead it just follow the act.
Pain is universal factors to restrain woman to have sex, human biology structure is that way where women often feel pain during intercourse than men as women are at the receiving end. In the starting of sex life all women are passing through this phase of pain during intercourse but gradually it will reduce. So physical pain is secondary, first is psychological pain and this would be the throughout the life.
For woman sex is the part of married life but for men marriage it means license of sex so men often wants sex but for women other things are also important with sex like house hold things, run the house , kids , careers and personal ambition too.
If my partner wills initiative, for me it is great form of love actually it my fantasy that my partner must have to initiative sex.
No women would like to initiative sex despite how much they wants to have sex. Woman thinks that it would affect her reputation as our social rules prevent them to imitative as we are living man made society and all the rights of sex in men hands so women usually plays the role of supportive or follow and always cooperate when man starts having sex. Woman hesitates to initiative thinking that what her partner thinks about her. No matter how much she is educated. I am telling this through experience as in college time I had a girlfriend who is highly broad minded and used to live in metro city but still when matter comes to sex or intimate relationship she always hesitated to start. Once I asked, her reason why she did not ask me to sex as she was liked the sex and oral sex the most and she simply replied she was not comfortable to ask it. Once she was comfortable in relation, she Okays and asks for the sex. You are right that man are worried about her orgasm as we are always consider sex means orgasm as we are concentrate on it because we think to achieve orgasm is the end of sex session but same is not for women.
There are many factors which keep women conceal like our reaction to her move, insecurities, wrong myths, conservative thinking, less education, womanhood, orthodox ideas, feeling inferiority, wrong belief that sex means pain, aggressive partner, arrange marriage, our society and their ideal like her mom or elder sister or friends discussion.
Yes I am sure women are less vocal because of men make fun of them if they takes lead in sex department, it is men ego that sex department purely belongs to men property so some women also think the same hence women do not lead it just follow the act.
Pain is universal factors to restrain woman to have sex, human biology structure is that way where women often feel pain during intercourse than men as women are at the receiving end. In the starting of sex life all women are passing through this phase of pain during intercourse but gradually it will reduce. So physical pain is secondary, first is psychological pain and this would be the throughout the life.
For woman sex is the part of married life but for men marriage it means license of sex so men often wants sex but for women other things are also important with sex like house hold things, run the house , kids , careers and personal ambition too.
If my partner wills initiative, for me it is great form of love actually it my fantasy that my partner must have to initiative sex.
