dipak,
We are all aware that sexual matters and perceptions are liberal in the West. This does not in any way cast a shadow on our culture and tradition. The familial bonds are stronger in the East, and relationships are nurtured and cultivated. So, you cannot compare the sexual liberation with each other.
One question, are you going to marry a foreigner or plump for someone closer home? I think we both know the answer. Dont get excited about foreign customs. Research their divorce rates and you will get my point. We are conservative and thressomes, gangbangs, swingers clubs may be difficult to locate, but we do enjoy sex as much as anyone else.
I would be surprised if your girlfriend ever agrees to a threesome, if she is serious about you. What will you gain by disclosing your sexcapades to her? She is bound to freak out. The first thing that she will tell you is that you have not been true to her and honest with her. I am surprised to the extent that you will go to please yourself sexually. What happens if your girlfriend has an affair? Will you be so liberal in your views? Do let me know.
Please always ensure that you use a condom, irrespective of your faith in the goodness of others.
