The first question we should be asking ourselvesbis - Do we know where we are inserting penis?
You may find it amusing or down right frustrating for pointing out but there are a lot of us who think the anus is the right spot.
So fisrt things first - are you inserting in the rigt spot? Anal opening is very much smaller and tigher than vaginal opening. You may be trying it get in the wrong door.
Two - if you are entering into vagina and still facing trouble - it could be that your wife has not had enough foreplay. foreplay is really important as it lubricates the inner lining of vagina and making it easier to enter and for stroking..
Three - is it possible that your wife is afraid or averse to having sex?? Some women may not show it but when are they are afraid or think sex is a bad thing they clench or tighten the muscles around the vaginal opening.. This is called Frigidity. It is the top most reason for women to not have sex specially in India.
So talk to her first to make sure she is fine.give her moral support and tell her its fine and you guys can get through it. If the problem turns out to be abiut the right spot to enter - try the internet ir some porn videos to help u out.
If the problem is frigidity... she may need some time or if it is really severe she may need some counseling with a sex therapist.
Good luck buddy..
You may find it amusing or down right frustrating for pointing out but there are a lot of us who think the anus is the right spot.
So fisrt things first - are you inserting in the rigt spot? Anal opening is very much smaller and tigher than vaginal opening. You may be trying it get in the wrong door.
Two - if you are entering into vagina and still facing trouble - it could be that your wife has not had enough foreplay. foreplay is really important as it lubricates the inner lining of vagina and making it easier to enter and for stroking..
Three - is it possible that your wife is afraid or averse to having sex?? Some women may not show it but when are they are afraid or think sex is a bad thing they clench or tighten the muscles around the vaginal opening.. This is called Frigidity. It is the top most reason for women to not have sex specially in India.
So talk to her first to make sure she is fine.give her moral support and tell her its fine and you guys can get through it. If the problem turns out to be abiut the right spot to enter - try the internet ir some porn videos to help u out.
If the problem is frigidity... she may need some time or if it is really severe she may need some counseling with a sex therapist.
Good luck buddy..