As far as cheating is concerned, my dear, promiscuity starts from brain, not genital organs.
Having said that, it is surely an indecent behavior. You are bold until you are caught. If you are caught, it will be a very bad experience for you, and the repercussions will go right upto your family. "Inviting trouble" is something that you should stay clear of. Probably your maid is not thinking the way you do. Probably she is getting uncomfortable, but not talking to your wife for the fear of losing her job. Your wife is never going to believe the maid obviously. But in your heart, you will be aware of the truth! If a girl is a widow or a divorcee, or poor, that doesn't make her available, my friend.
Why is it that we wait for a complaint or a bitter experience before we put a stop to our animal instincts? Why can't we just be good citizens? 36 is not an age to lose reputation. It is the age to keep up the good reputation that you have already earned. Looking at life from a larger canvas will surely make it apparent that what you are seeking pleasures from may not be that good a thing to do!
Having said that, it is surely an indecent behavior. You are bold until you are caught. If you are caught, it will be a very bad experience for you, and the repercussions will go right upto your family. "Inviting trouble" is something that you should stay clear of. Probably your maid is not thinking the way you do. Probably she is getting uncomfortable, but not talking to your wife for the fear of losing her job. Your wife is never going to believe the maid obviously. But in your heart, you will be aware of the truth! If a girl is a widow or a divorcee, or poor, that doesn't make her available, my friend.
Why is it that we wait for a complaint or a bitter experience before we put a stop to our animal instincts? Why can't we just be good citizens? 36 is not an age to lose reputation. It is the age to keep up the good reputation that you have already earned. Looking at life from a larger canvas will surely make it apparent that what you are seeking pleasures from may not be that good a thing to do!