Hi. I am very much depressed because of the following reasons. I am married and enjoying sex with limited fantasy. Due to my job nature, I need to visit client sites for long duration. I am very much addicted to sex and fantasy. So I enjoy while at home. Now, however due to my job nature and not being at home, I am experiencing a problem.
Whenever I visit another location due to work, I am struggling to satisfy my sex urges. I spend much time on online porn sites which leads to my normal lifestyle disturbance. So I started distracting myself, by visiting shopping malls and streets, where I just love to see only women, women, women.
If I see any lady with good features, automatically I stare her breasts. Also if a lady is wearing a tight pant or jeans, I look at her front and back. Though I control myself, it automatically happens. I struggle a lot in this lust which disturbs me in work and I am losing my peace all the time.
I am afraid to discuss with my wife. Please advise me how to stop this behaviour and also share with me, if the the same thing happens with you also. I am surprised to see some of my friends are not at all looking at the ladies like me.
Narenk,
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