Answered: I am confused about pre-marital sex.

Dear johand143,


   Dude you are of 24, youbhave a strong sexual desire and it should be at this age. You are masturbating and not ready to get married. Almost 90% of youth have same situation like you. they also want to enjoy sex and in same time want to be a bachelor.

   Now about your right or wrong issue, morally as by our culture society, sex anything outside our marriage is taken as sin. If you find it wrong to have sex with unmarried girl then it is also wrong to have sex with married one. This is the issue of morality.

   But i think if you have sex with your partner's consent then it doesn't matter she is married or not. Because extra marital affair is taken as boom in our culture and society. There is no issue in it.

   If you find an married women and she is ready to have sex with you then go for it and same with the girls. Its your choice what you like the most. To avoid all this you can mastirbate and control your sexual urge as most of the guys of your age do. Its quite simple as it is. But one thing yiu should always keep in mind and that is use of condom. Good Luck .!