hi anita,
unless your colleague is a user on this website and decides to tell you here on this very question i am a little skeptical that you will get the right answer .
from your question it seems that you have developed some feelings for him and now you are scared to ask him because you feel that he is only with you for sex or he would reject you as a life partner due to your prior affair which he knows about,so you want other people to tell you that he loves you !!
dear,the only way of finding out is asking the man in question.
before asking you should consider all aspects that can you take the relationship with him to the next level and finally to marriage ?
nevertheless if you have developed any kind of emotional feelings for him you need to convey those feelings to him sooner rather than later.
be ready for a not so exciting reply as he is 3 years younger to you and might find it difficult to marry you or may be he just wouldn't marry until he is 30 or something. being 24 he can wait easily but it might be a little difficult for you.
so you need to sort this out as soon as possible with him for your own good.
best of luck :)
unless your colleague is a user on this website and decides to tell you here on this very question i am a little skeptical that you will get the right answer .
from your question it seems that you have developed some feelings for him and now you are scared to ask him because you feel that he is only with you for sex or he would reject you as a life partner due to your prior affair which he knows about,so you want other people to tell you that he loves you !!
dear,the only way of finding out is asking the man in question.
before asking you should consider all aspects that can you take the relationship with him to the next level and finally to marriage ?
nevertheless if you have developed any kind of emotional feelings for him you need to convey those feelings to him sooner rather than later.
be ready for a not so exciting reply as he is 3 years younger to you and might find it difficult to marry you or may be he just wouldn't marry until he is 30 or something. being 24 he can wait easily but it might be a little difficult for you.
so you need to sort this out as soon as possible with him for your own good.
best of luck :)