Intimate love is epitomized by concept of virginity, which is crystal clear and well known to reserved ones worldwide. Perhaps, it's a promise, a belie, a lifelong trust of timeless patience cumulating in cent percent focus towards that One lover, one champagne... that can make others around feel they were mere soft drinks, dull and incomplete.
There is another way of looking at one's sense of purity. I ask the porn-taught unmarried virgins or peer influenced one timers, after viewing xxx material for long durations, fact that you even for once, never playfully stripped your lover but quiet often continued to dream, fantasize and strip every new face (porn star) you viewed? Is it not mentally making out with one new face night after night and establishing a personal harem in your head, despite lacking someone to share physical intimacy with? With innumerable hardcore snaps circulating within mind-groves, do you really, feel like a virgin even though technically you are or were one?
The idea was to live choice-less situation. One has no control in which family birth can take place. Rich dad, poor dad or sugar dad! Mother either affirms to drink or prefers charitable nature. Sibling, extroverted with party-goers or isolates to four walls. Spite of clear differences, prototypical taste, un matching sun signs and ambitions, we learn to adapt and eventually compromise for most parts of our lives. Question mark is over that one more family member, an out and out real man, who will value another woman's virginity and in spite of her advances, may reject it considering her future relationship at stake due to *few hours of fun*. (That is to safeguard her moment of weakness for another man and not himself, I am not speaking of opportunists here)
Most women such as myself know reason's but why don't you value virginity and give it away cheaply?
Kindly consider this query's sentimental value and what it upholds for true, loving relationship.
(P.S. Victims of child abuse/ rape, I beg your pardon, query isn't meant to hurt your sensibilities).
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