Hi,
1. She may not have been a virgin.
2. Besides, being a virgin doesn't automatically mean the first time sex will be painful for all girls. For some it is painless.
3. She enjoys fingering. Because her clitoris gets simulated. Maybe your rhythm, force of thrust and the intensity makes her have an orgasm while fingering. And maybe you are not able to replicate that with your penis.
4. And when you say she doesn't feel anything, what do you mean? She doesn't respond to you when you are fucking her? or she doesn't react to you AS GOOD AS when she does when you are fingering her?
Her reactions while fingering and fucking may not be the same. Just like your reactions while you are masturbating with your own hands, and being masturbated by your girl, will be very different.
5. Is she unresponsive in all the positions you fuck her? In doggy style? when she is on top? Or lotus position?
Try various poses and see where she gets maximum pleasure.
So don't judge her.
Here is my advice:
1. Ask her. Talk to her. How she feels while you are fingering her. What are her emotions. Be very soft when you are asking all this to her.
2. Ask her how she feels when you are fucking her with your penis. What does she feel. Let her talk. Don't interrupt her.
3. Ask her how you can make it more enjoyable for her. What would she like you to do to her.
Does she want it to be rougher or gentler sex?
Does she want your penis to be harder?
Does she like dirty talk, calling her a slut/bitch etc.?
Explore the kinky side of her. Ask her if she'd like to be spanked while fucking her?
4. Tell her you would like to see her enjoying herself when you are fucking her with your penis.
5. Try this next time. Ask her to fuck you with her being top of you. Riding you. And while she's doing that, make two of your fingers wet with your saliva and reach out to her clitoris and stimulate her while she's riding you. I would recommend using your thumb. And watch her. Look into her eyes while you are rubbing her clitoris.
Pleasuring a woman is an art.
Learn the art.
It is not about the size of your penis all the time. 5 inches is an average size for an indian guy. But doctors say, even a 4 incher is good enough to satisfy a woman, as the pleasure nerves are only 1 inch deep in a vagina. Rest is all in the mind.
So read, talk, ask, communicate with her, practice with her. And enjoy the journey while you are doing it all.
And by read I don't mean porn ;)
Read the Kamasutra, it explains very well what it takes to pleasure a woman.
All the best!
1. She may not have been a virgin.
2. Besides, being a virgin doesn't automatically mean the first time sex will be painful for all girls. For some it is painless.
3. She enjoys fingering. Because her clitoris gets simulated. Maybe your rhythm, force of thrust and the intensity makes her have an orgasm while fingering. And maybe you are not able to replicate that with your penis.
4. And when you say she doesn't feel anything, what do you mean? She doesn't respond to you when you are fucking her? or she doesn't react to you AS GOOD AS when she does when you are fingering her?
Her reactions while fingering and fucking may not be the same. Just like your reactions while you are masturbating with your own hands, and being masturbated by your girl, will be very different.
5. Is she unresponsive in all the positions you fuck her? In doggy style? when she is on top? Or lotus position?
Try various poses and see where she gets maximum pleasure.
So don't judge her.
Here is my advice:
1. Ask her. Talk to her. How she feels while you are fingering her. What are her emotions. Be very soft when you are asking all this to her.
2. Ask her how she feels when you are fucking her with your penis. What does she feel. Let her talk. Don't interrupt her.
3. Ask her how you can make it more enjoyable for her. What would she like you to do to her.
Does she want it to be rougher or gentler sex?
Does she want your penis to be harder?
Does she like dirty talk, calling her a slut/bitch etc.?
Explore the kinky side of her. Ask her if she'd like to be spanked while fucking her?
4. Tell her you would like to see her enjoying herself when you are fucking her with your penis.
5. Try this next time. Ask her to fuck you with her being top of you. Riding you. And while she's doing that, make two of your fingers wet with your saliva and reach out to her clitoris and stimulate her while she's riding you. I would recommend using your thumb. And watch her. Look into her eyes while you are rubbing her clitoris.
Pleasuring a woman is an art.
Learn the art.
It is not about the size of your penis all the time. 5 inches is an average size for an indian guy. But doctors say, even a 4 incher is good enough to satisfy a woman, as the pleasure nerves are only 1 inch deep in a vagina. Rest is all in the mind.
So read, talk, ask, communicate with her, practice with her. And enjoy the journey while you are doing it all.
And by read I don't mean porn ;)
Read the Kamasutra, it explains very well what it takes to pleasure a woman.
All the best!
