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Married and attracted to another married woman. What to do?

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I live in the USA, married and have children. I saw a married woman from my ethnic background, 7-8 years back in YMCA, noticed her looking at me but I ignored her (I am shy to talk to woman). Did not see her at a lot at get-togethers. I remember seeing her some where and she was pregnant I felt jealous. Time passed then I saw here again at some one's house where they had invited a lot of people. I could not stop staring at her.

I think she also noticed me staring her. After that incident I realized I like her in the back of my mind. Last year my friend got married and she was also there and I felt that she might also be attracted towards me. I have started seeing her in community get-togethers more frequently than before and I can't keep my eyes off her. She probably knows that also.

On a couple of occasions she has initiated saying hi to me. I feel a lot of attraction towards her not necessarily with sex point of view but I would love to meet her at a coffee shop etc. and talk to her or look at her but I am afraid that this might only be my imagination or misunderstanding that she likes me and in that case if she tells any body about my advances, I could be alienated with the community. I have tried ignoring her but it is useless. I have not been able to sleep a few times after seeing her.

Can some one advise? Is there any way to find out if she is interested in me?

Thanks.

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