Hi Asha,
You are living your life on the edge of the sword and you will never realise when the hell will break on your head in the process of fulfilling your lust. Yes I say this attraction and lust annd nothing else. Its might just that you got a bit bore with your monotonous married life and just around that time you got this guy or maybe you searched for this guy.
Be honest and ask yourself did you search for this guy, as I see no reason that you might be sexually unsatisfied as neither you said anything about it nor did you said that your hubby does not love you. Believe me it will be a near impossible task to settle down. Your loving and caring husband will break down so will be your kids as they are grown up enough to understand you unfaithfulness. What if you kids refuse to accompany you. No life will be a happy life if you try to build it stepping on the love n care of your near And dear ones. Also its not only the family, its the relatives you are associated with from ur Hubby's n your side as well that you are responsible for. Also whats the guarantee that you will not find your so-called die-hard love the third time, will you do the same again.
So think sensibly and forget about it. No need to disclose it to your family. If u can't stay away from the guy,resign the job or take a long break with yourfamily. Also don't compare your hubby with the guy when ur hubby scold or you have a quarrel. Quarrel is a beautiful part of family life and its aftr a quarrel we realise that we can't stay apart from each other.
